Hobbies
Reading, Hiking, Horseback riding, Keeping pets, Playing sports, Visiting with friends, Working out/exercising
Bicycling, Hiking, Playing an instrument, Reading
Occupation
Technology/Computers
Technology/Computers
Technology/Computers
Relationship Status
Married couple
Married couple
Ethnicity
White/Caucasian
White/Caucasian
Religion
Christian
Christian
Type of Home
Apartment
Apartment
Type of neighbourhood
City
City
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First Name
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Last Name
Country
United States
United States
Address
Eye Color
Brown
Green
Hair Color
Dark Brown
Grey
Height
5'8"
5'9"
Education
Graduate degree
Graduate degree
Gender
Female
Male
Smoking
No
No
Drinking
Social drinker
Social drinker
Hobbies
Reading, Hiking, Horseback riding, Keeping pets, Playing sports, Visiting with friends, Working out/exercising
Bicycling, Hiking, Playing an instrument, Reading
Age
42
58
CHILDREN DETAIL
Do you have kids?
None
How many kids do you have?
How old are they?
Do they live with you?
Tell us about your children. What do they like to do for fun?
PHOTOS
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Fullname
28112023_1
LastName
Resident Country
United States
Address
Eye Color
Brown
Hair Color
Dark Brown
Height
5'8"
Ethnicity
White/Caucasian
Education
Graduate degree
Hobbies
Reading, Hiking, Horseback riding, Keeping pets, Playing sports, Visiting with friends, Working out/exercising
Religion
Christian
Occupation
Technology/Computers
Type of home
Apartment
Type of Neighbourhood
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Fullname
28112023_2
LastName
Resident Country
United States
Address
Eye Color
Green
Hair Color
Grey
Height
5'9"
Ethnicity
White/Caucasian
Education
Graduate degree
Hobbies
Bicycling, Hiking, Playing an instrument, Reading
Religion
Christian
Christian
Occupation
Technology/Computers
Type of Home
Apartment
Apartment
Type of Neighbourhood
FAVOURITES
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Actor
Animal or Pet
No favorite - love them both so much!
My two Jack Russells
Author
Aldous Huxley
Samuel Beckett
Bedtime story
When my husband tells me about his day :-)
Beverage / Drink
Water, occasionally Champagne
Book
Shadow of the Wind
Candy Bar
Anything with chocolate
Twix
Childhood Memory
Color
Yellow
Green
Dessert
Vacherin at Au Pied de Cochon in Paris
Profiterole
Disney Movie
Coco!!!
Coco
Car
Aston Martin
Job
Mother
Being a father
Family Activity
Exploring the world
Hiking
Restaurant
Flower
Tigerlily
Fruit
Strawberries
Hobby
No Data
No Data
Hobby
Taking walks with my husband and dogs
Restoring classic cars
Holiday
No Data
No Data
Holiday
Christmas
Song
Sport to play
Skiing or Horseback Riding
Rugby
Sport to watch
No Data
No Data
Sport to watch
Rugby
Rubgy
Traditions
Late Christmas in January when the entire family gets together
Late Christmas in January when the entire family gets together
Things to cook
Breakfast tacos - they are SO good!
Chili
TV show
Movie
2001: A Space Odyssey
FAVOURITES
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Actor
Pet
No favorite - love them both so much!
Arthur
Aldous Huxley
Bedtime story
When my husband tells me about his day :-)
Beverage / Drink
Water, occasionally Champagne
Book
Candy Bar
Anything with chocolate
Childhood Memory
Color
Yellow
Dessert
Vacherin at Au Pied de Cochon in Paris
Disney Movie
Coco!!!
Dream Car
Dream Job
Mother
Dream Vacation
Sleeping in for five minutes :-)
Family Activity
Exploring the world
Resturant
Flower
Tigerlily
Fruit
Hobby
Taking walks with my husband and dogs
Holiday
Song
Sport to play
Skiing or Horseback Riding
sport to Watch
Rugby
Things to cook:
Breakfast tacos - they are SO good!
Favorite Traditions
Late Christmas in January when the entire family gets together
TV show
Movie
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Actor
Pet
My two Jack Russells
Arthur
Samuel Beckett
Bedtime story
Beverage / Drink
Book
Shadow of the Wind
Candy Bar
Twix
Childhood Memory
Color
Green
Dessert
Profiterole
Disney Movie
Coco
Dream Car
Aston Martin
Dream Job
Being a father
Dream Vacation
Family Activity
Hiking
Resturant
Flower
Fruit
Strawberries
Hobby
Restoring classic cars
Holiday
Song
Sport to play
Rugby
sport to Watch
Rubgy
Things to cook:
Chili
Favorite Traditions
Christmas in January
TV show
INTRO LETTER
Dear Prospective Donors,
Firstly, we want to begin by thanking you so very much for your generous gift. The act of donating something so very personal to someone you have never met is truly selfless. In the end, whether or not you choose us to receive your embryo(s), we want to acknowledge the generosity and thank you from the bottom of our hearts for making the world a better place.
We are a married couple who have been together since 2009. We have been trying for the last three years to conceive on our own but, unfortunately, have not had any success. We began IVF in 2021 and, while we have completed numerous cycles (many back-to-back), we currently have only one viable embryo. While we are extremely grateful for this miracle, we are very keen to have a family with multiple children. To us, one of the greatest gifts and joys a child can experience is growing up alongside a sibling. Coming from childhoods with siblings, we can both attest to the value of sharing one’s experiences with a similarly-aged peer. Because of this, we are hoping to adopt additional embryos. Please note that donated embryos will be implanted before our biological one.
As parents to two very rambunctious Jack Russell Terriers, we have begun to get a sense of how we would function as parents. Although we can only assume that having a human child is much more complicated and demanding, we are extremely committed to the happiness, security and well-being of our dogs, characteristics that we would also ensure in our child. Over the course of many years of meeting these needs, we have found that we have established three important traits that will naturally transfer over to human children: love, patience and understanding.
Despite all the television shows, YouTubes and books that exist to support dog parents, raising a dog is difficult; raising a Jack Russell is a level past that. They are an extremely fearless, intelligent, tenacious, stubborn breed with boundless energy. Without proper guidance, they can be very destructive and even aggressive; however, our two dogs are the kindest, most well-mannered pets. The one remark we hear over and over again is how happy and secure our dogs appear to be. This always warms our hearts because co-parenting both dogs to this point was by no means easy. It took lots of work, tears, sleepless nights and uncomfortable discussions to get to where we are as a family. And we would do it all over again a thousand times over.
In addition to love, patience and understanding, we took extreme care to respect their individual personalities. We have two very different dogs: the older one is much calmer and more reserved with strangers, basks in leisurely strolls and takes her time thinking things through beforehand (like her father) while the younger one is super social with endless energy, zooms though the world and jumps into new experiences free of inhibition (like his mother). Both personalities come with advantages and drawbacks and our approach to parenting them has to take this into consideration; there is not a one-size-fits-all model. One of the joys of raising our two fur babies has been indulging their unique traits while also leading the pack in a safe, loving environment.
Although dogs stand in as children for many, they mentally never pass a certain level so we as parents can be certain that we will always hold the power. Although this is the case, we have no doubt that we will be able to adjust to human parenthood utilizing the same formula of love, patience and understanding while respecting the needs of the individual. One of the greatest joys we look forward to as parents is learning who our child is as a person and supporting them in their journey. To us, this is the essence of parenting. As prospective parents, it is only natural to envision what our child might be like; however, I can assure you that every child we bring into this world will be loved, honored and encouraged for who they are as a person.
While the needs of the individual are paramount, family is also extremely important to us. Some activities we enjoy together are traveling (international and domestic), skiing, hiking, horseback riding, discovering new restaurants and/or partaking in various cultural activities in our hometown. Additionally, we have extended family whom we adore and with whom we spend lots of time; we also frequently visit out-of-town family members. Despite all of these activities, we derive our greatest pleasure from enjoying each other’s company and make this the foundation of all of our adventures.
It is our sincere hope that this letter has provided you with a sense of who we are as a family and where we place our values. Although we do not know what the future holds and how we might exactly handle a situation, we can assure you that your embryo(s) will be entering an environment where they are unconditionally loved and respected. We can also assure you that they will be given endless support in reaching who they are as an individual.
With much love and gratitude,
Our Family
REFERENCE LETTER 1
Dear Prospective Donor,
I am writing on behalf of [Her name] and [His name], two extraordinary individuals seeking to grow their family by becoming parents.
I have known [Her name] my entire life. She is my older, wiser, intentional, and thoughtful sister. For the past several years, she has attempted to conceive on her own and through IVF. Despite her motivation, medical intervention, positive thoughts, and prayer, the two have not yet been able to have a child of their own. [Her name] has always been determined to accomplish her goals through hard work, studying, and persistence. In this particular instance, however, those strategies have proved unsuccessful and she’s seeking alternative options… This is where you come in!
I’ve known [His name] for approximately 10 years. He is the driving force behind my sister's sense of calm, boundless energy to try new things, and supports her in all her ideas and travel adventures. [His name] is full of knowledge, love for his family, and creativity. When he’s not practicing his violin, or hosting family meetings, he’s working hard at making his colleagues’ and clients’ lives easier.
The two of them together are an exceptional couple! They share two dogs, Poppy, and Fergus, who have provided them with multiple opportunities to practice patience, kindness, and unwavering love. [Her name] and [His name] put their dogs above themselves, provide all their necessities, training, and tons of praise! Their coparenting of their fur babies is transferred into the way they care for their friends, coworkers, and family.
[Her name] and [His name] are an aunt and uncle to my son, who loves them unconditionally! They are so excited about his accomplishments, learning about his interests, and being present for special occasions. Due to their planning and attention to detail, [Her name] and [His name] have known about his events prior to my husband and me. They prioritize our son, and he knows that if he ever needed anything, they are two trusted adults.
While [Her name] and [His name] have achieved so much in their lifetime, I can’t help but to be selfish and ask for you to consider them as a recipient for your embryos. I cannot think of a more welcoming, loving, and accepting home. They would be honored (and prepared) to grow a human who is loved, cared for, and provided with an experience that allows them to be seen, heard, and valued. By selecting [Her name] and [His name] for your donation, you’re making a huge sacrifice and commitment to helping make this world a better place.
Thank you in advance for your time, consideration, and thoughtful decision.
Wish you well,
REFERENCE LETTER 2
Dear Potential Donor Family,
I am writing to tell you about my dear friends [Her name] and [His name]. I would like to start by telling you how I know them, before explaining why I believe they are dream parents-to-be.
I was lucky enough to meet [Her name] and [His name] through our dogs. Dogs are certainly not children, but I believe you can tell a lot about a person’s character by seeing how they care for something smaller than them. While working from home as a journalist I briefly started dog sitting in my apartment, as my two dogs love play dates. I met [Her name] and [His name] when their adorable Jack Rusell Terriers named Poppy and Fergus came over to my home.
If [Her name] and [His name] would be out of the house for an extended period of time–think, a few hours–they liked for someone to watch them and I began to do so. I was immediately amazed by their devotion to their two sweet dogs and the fact that they wanted to ensure they were never lonely. Even when I wasn’t watching Poppy and Fergus I began running into [Her name] in the neighborhood when she was walking them. She is so dedicated to getting them plenty of outside time each day, walking them much more than I walk my own dogs!
My husband and I consider [Her name] and [His name] to be the perfect dog parents. They are really attentive to Poppy and Fergus but not overbearing. For example, I’ve apologized to them before for my own dogs’ hyperness because they go wild when they see Poppy and Fergus, but [Her name] and [His name] don’t mind because they want their dogs to be dogs and have fun. When [Her name] told me that she and [His name] were on a journey to become parents I immediately told her: “You two will be the best Mom and Dad!”
[Her name] and [His name] are extremely responsible, as I’ve witnessed with the way they take care of their pets, but they are also such a loving couple. They are both accomplished and successful in their careers but remain completely down to earth because they have good hearts. They are warm people who make you comfortable when you’re around them. They have offered me advice regarding my life and career and opened up to me about their lives. I trust them wholeheartedly and know I can count on them in any type of bind or emergency.
My father died when I was a child and I think a lot about the importance of the relationship between fathers and their kids, because my relationship with mine was so special while I had it. [His name] has this incredibly gentle and sweet energy. I really think he was born to be a dad. I know him to be thoughtful, kind, and patient, whether with me, my husband, or our animals. I wish every child could have a father like him.
[Her name] is loving, funny, and trustworthy. She is the type of woman who, when she needs to find a doctor for a friend, will find the best doctor. If she doesn’t want to leave her dogs alone for too long, she will make sure she finds a super animal lover dog sitter like myself to look after them. She is one of the warmest people I have had the pleasure of knowing in our city. When I envision her as a mom I know she will provide her children with all the love, attention, positive feedback, and healthy boundaries they require and deserve. I also know she will let them fly and experience life, instead of trying to keep them too close.
My husband and I have been so lucky to develop a friendship with [Her name] and [His name], out of what began as a playdate friendship with our dogs! I don’t know any couple who would be better parents than them. If I could design a set of perfect parents out of thin air, they would end up looking just like them. There are so many challenges in this world and I’m immensely grateful to know that there are children who will grow up in the type of loving and accepting household that [Her name] and [His name] will provide.
I want to thank you for the incredible gift you are giving. I send you love and gratitude for your life-changing contribution.
Warmly,
REFERENCE LETTER 3
Dear Prospective Donor,
I trust this letter finds you well. I am writing to bring to your attention the exceptional qualities exhibited by my friends, [Her name] and [His name], as they embark on their journey towards parenthood.
I first had the pleasure of meeting [Her name] and [His name] almost four years ago, right at the onset of the COVID pandemic. Living in the same neighborhood, our paths crossed during my nightly walks with my dog Buddy, intersecting with their walks alongside their beloved canine companions, Fergus and Poppy. Through these interactions, I came to appreciate [Her name] and [His name] as remarkable individuals.
The awe-inspiring aspect of their personalities lies in their unwavering commitment to their pursuits. [Her name[, with her background in mathematics, computer programming, and psychological sciences, continuously strives for excellence. Meanwhile, [His name], has a background of banking with hobbies like being an automotive enthusiast specializing in Classic Mini Coopers and an apprentice fiddle player, seamlessly balances his diverse interests with his professional endeavors. This dynamic duo not only excels in their individual capacities but also maintains a flourishing love life that radiates love and commitment. A testament to their enduring love is evident in their intentional efforts to nurture their relationship. From designated cuisine days to movie and dinner dates, [Her name] and [His name] consistently prioritize each other. Their marriage exudes a perpetual honeymoon-like bliss, a rare quality that signifies their profound self-awareness and genuine love for one another.
There is one story that I would like to share that I hope gives you insight into who they could be as parents. I got to experience this one night when [Her name] and [His name] invited me to their place for a movie night and a dinner. They had just gotten a new table in the kitchen area, which leads to their bedroom which is where Poppy and Fergus live and have their beds and food. [Her name] and [His name] mentioned that Fergus and Poppy were behaving out of the ordinary for the past day, being “short fused” so to speak. That evening, Fergus and Poppy got so fed up with each other that they started growling at each other, [Her name] got down to their eye level to break apart the growl showdown and Fergus out of mistake nipped [Her name] on the lip as quick as lighting. After [Her name] was nipped, there was no retaliation from her or [His name], rather they stopped and thought there was something behind this, this is not them and I agree. I know Poppy and Fergus and they would never do something like this. It was the new table! After watching Fergus and Poppy move through the kitchen area, we noticed that the table was obstructing a walking path that they used to take and forced them into a choke point that was in essence “Poppy’s Territory”. After this incident, there was no aggression, bad mouthing, nor physical hits, just unconditional love, a lot of patience, and a great amount of communication between [Her name] and [His name] to figure out what was the root cause of all of this. I saw that there was consistency of the treatment and love of their little ones, and of course boundaries and discipline were set in place in the regard that Fergus and Poppy went to further training with a dog trainer to teach them that nipping, even just once, it is not acceptable. Though I have never seen a dog feel so shocked and guilty in their life, Fergus’ eyes opened so big and was so sad when he nipped at [Her name], he was all night next to her brushing up against her knowing that what he did was a wrongful mistake that hurt [Her name]. [Her name] was just telling him; it is okay and kissing him and petting him. This incident showcased their commitment to addressing challenges with love, consistency, and a steadfast approach to establishing boundaries. Please note, the table got moved and there have been no growl showdowns ever since.
Furthermore, their empathy, supportiveness, and encouragement have not only shaped my life but are indicative of qualities crucial for effective parenting. During the challenging times of the COVID pandemic, when my family faced setbacks impeding my medical education, [Her name] and [His name] selflessly opened their home, allowing me to continue my studies away from home. This act of kindness, rooted in their own experiences overcoming obstacles, epitomizes their empathetic and supportive nature. Both [Her name] and [His name] backgrounds reflect an understanding of the struggles minorities face in educational pursuits. [His name] experience as an Irish immigrant and [Her name] journey as someone with Mexican roots, overcoming barriers to achieve success, underlines their shared commitment to fostering inclusivity and breaking down educational barriers. This displayed to me that for me, a stranger that became a friend and they have this much support, encouragement, and love. I can’t imagine the things they will give and provide for their child.
In conclusion, [Her name] and [His name] are not only my friends but individuals I deeply admire. Their combined strength, compassion, and resources make them exceptional candidates for parenthood. I wholeheartedly recommend them as recipients for your consideration. I am confident that they possess the qualities necessary to provide any child with a nurturing and enriching environment, backed by the unwavering support of their lovable companions, Fergus and Poppy.
It is my honor to refer such wonderful people,