Hi we are [Her name] and [His name], our Journey to parenthood has been one of hope, resilience, deep longing, and one miracle. Infertility has tested us in ways we never could have imagined. I was diagnosed with PCOS at a very young age and through my early teenage years I was getting very large ovarian cysts which led my mom and I to have a very serious conversation about future pregnancies. I remember that conversation like it was yesterday and the wave of emotions that followed. All I ever wanted was to be a mom and hearing I may never be able to have a child due to possibility of removing my ovaries, haunted me for years. Early on in our relationship [His name] and I agreed on what we wanted our family picture to look like. We tried for three years to get pregnant under the supervision of a OBGYN who specialized in PCOS and achieving pregnancy. After following all directions, changing habits, and taking all the recommended medications, herbs, and vitamins, we finally decided to seek help from a fertility specialist. After 3 rounds of medication induced IUI we found out we were pregnant with our little miracle. J has been our biggest blessing and being parents is better then we ever imaged it would be. As a family of three we know we are not complete as we have so much more love to give and J “wishes for a baby”. As soon as J turned one we went back to the fertility specialist and started some more medication induced IUI, we completed 5 rounds. Month after month our tests were negative and we were once again met with heartbreak. We then decided to try IVF. We poured our hearts into every step-appointments, treatments, medications, and prayers. We regained our hope as 15 follicles were retrieved, but were devastated once again a few weeks later when our PGT results were back and our remaining blastocytes had genetic abnormalities. We took some time to digest the news, before seeking another specialist. Under our current reproductive Endocrinologist, we tried a few more rounds and 5 more months of heartbreak led us to the decision to adopt embryos.

[His name] and I met 14 years ago while working at an Urgent Care and sharing the same group of colleges who are now our long time friends. Our love story is one of resilience, deep commitment, and an unshakable bond that only grows stronger with time. Like so many couples, we eagerly planned our wedding, envisioning the day we would stand before family and friends to officially begin the next chapter of our lives. But when COVID hit our wedding was postponed, we found something even more meaningful-the undeniable strength of our relationship. Whether it is finding joy in the little moments, or simply knowing we have each other no what, our connection is built on trust, laughter, and an unbreakable foundation of love. While our wedding day will come at its own perfect time, with our kids in attendance, we know that what truly matters isn’t the ceremony itself, but the life we are building together.

In our family, caring for others isn’t just a job-it’s a calling. As two parents working in the healthcare field for 14 years, we’ve dedicated our lives to helping people in their most vulnerable moments. We are both driven by compassion, resilience, and a deep desire to make a difference. [His name] is a Radiologic Technologist for one of the Nations Top Doc Orthopedic Surgeons. I am a Associate Director of Operations for the Surgical Services line, under a National healthcare system. Despite the demands of our careers, family is always at the center if our lives. There is nothing better than coming home to laughter, bedtime stories, and the warmth of togetherness. Our love for what we do in healthcare extends beyond work-it’s shaped who we are as parents. We hope to instill in our children the same values of empathy, dedication, and compassion for making the world a little brighter one act of kindness at a time.

While we are at work, J stays with his Mimi (Grandma). As a previous daycare educator, Mimi and J spend their days exploring, learning new things, and taking day trips to the local kids gyms or parks. Mimi and Pop Pops house is a playground of possibilities which has a mini golf course, tree swings, a pool, and a playground. Inside the playroom is a wonderland of imagination. Shelves lined with toys, books, and games invite the grandkids to create, learn, and play. Mimi loves staying home with grandkids and often helps with all of our friends kids when they are in a bind for childcare.

On our spare time we enjoy time with our family and friends, and spending time outdoors. Most of the time we will be found exploring local parks, beaches, zoos, farmers markets, festivals, and museums. With the hustle of everyday life we have found a piece of paradise at home. We live in a single family 3 bedroom 2 bathroom home with an open floor plan, large entertaining areas, and a private fenced in Backyard. We are surrounded by parks, 3 of which we can walk to. The biggest one offers a splash pad, two playgrounds, walking and biking paths, a driving range, dog park, Frisbie golf, and canoe rentals. Our town hosts 4th of July, West Feast, and so many festivals which include endless activities for the kids. We definitely hit the jackpot with the location of our home.

Our family is more than just relatives-we are a close-knit unit, bound by love, laughter, and the joy of spending time together. We’re lucky enough to all live nearby making everyday moments just as special as the big celebrations. The best part is J gets to see grandparents, uncles, aunts, and cousins every week. Whether it’s spontaneous get-togethers, Sunday dinners, holiday traditions, or cheering each other on through life’s milestones we cherish the closeness that keeps us connected. Beyond the holidays, our family shares another cherished tradition- our annual family vacations. Each year we pick two destinations where we can escape the routine and make lasting memories together. Whether it’s a beach retreat, a mountain getaway, or an exciting theme park, these trips are about more than just travel; they are a chance to reconnect, explore, and strengthen the bonds that make our family so special. Through every holiday, every trip, and every ordinary day, we are reminded of how lucky we are to have each other. Our family is our greatest gift.

Our group of friends is an extension of our family that started 12 years ago. No matter how busy life gets, we always make it a priority to come together, ensuring that our friendships remain strong and that our children grow up surrounded by love, laughter, and a true sense of community. Every month we carve out time for much-anticipated get togethers, where the kids run free creating their own little adventures, while the adults catch up over good food, great conversation, and plenty of laughter. Beyond our monthly meetups, we are each others biggest supporters-celebrating birthdays, cheering at sports games, attending school events, and marking every milestone together. No matter what we know this circle of friends will always be there, growing and evolving together, just like the families we built.

Before we close we want to express our deepest gratitude for your incredible generosity in considering embryo donation. While we have not matched yet, knowing there are people like you—willing to share such a precious gift—gives us immense hope for the future. Your selflessness creates possibilities that would otherwise be out of reach for families like ours. It's hard to put into words how much that means. Thank you for being part of this beautiful and deeply meaningful process. No matter the outcome, please know that your kindness does not go unnoticed—it makes the world a better place for all of us longing to grow our families.

Sincerly