Hello, we are a very hopeful family, and we are insanely blessed and in awe that we even get a chance to write a letter to hopefully add into our family. I am 32, and my husband is 34. My husband is active duty in the United Stated Air Force, and I am a Deputy Coroner so I definitely have the cooler job. My husband is Bosinan, and when he was three his mother and him made the journey to America to escape a civil war. When he became a US citizen, he always knew he wanted to serve the country that allowed him to grow up in a war free zone. He joined as soon as he was able to and we met at one of his duty stations. A little about us, we have such serious jobs that when we are home and together we enjoy laughing, being silly, cracking jokes, and pulling pranks on each other. We know life is short so we don't bring work stress home with us, we use our house as a fun, decompression, relaxed zone. We love sitting at home on Saturdays during football season, grilling, playing darts and cornhole in our back yard. During the summer months we always plan family vacations, and we enjoy exploring with our dogs. We have two Golden Retrievers and they are very sweet and we take them everywhere. They adjust well to different environments, and absolutely love childern. We have no doubt they will make perfect best friends for our childern. We love gardening my husband has a green thumb. Every year we plan something for us to do together to cross off our bucket list. The plan has always been to include our childern in crossing off bucket list items. We want them to see as much as the world with us to not only build memories but to encourage new experiences. We love going to local farmer's market, local coffee shops, and going to car shows. In 2019 we started our journey to becoming parents. After almost two years trying naturally we knew we needed help. We started with 4 rounds of IUI, and then moved to IVF. They discovered I was resistant to medication so they gave me an intense round IVF. We were filled with so much excitment. During the retrieveral process it was found I have a jumping ovary. That means they when they went to retrieve my follicles from the right side my ovary would move making it unsafe to retrieve. After only retrieving follicles from the left, and the seven day long wait we found out that only one made it. We were thrilled that we had a fighter. We implanted and we got pregnant! After 6 weeks I started bleeding, and it led me to the first miscarriage. We were heartbroken, confused, and out of chances. I were able to send out our little one for testing and found out she had a small extra chromosome. We met with a geneticist and discovered that I could pass down this extra chromosome with any child. My husband and I decieded that we would not use my eggs at that point and since he had low sperm count we just opted to not use his sperm either. After a few months of healing it was decided that we will try again but this time we were doing donor embryo. This wasn't a hard chioce for us, we know some couples struggle but we just want to be called mom and dad it made zero difference to us if they were blood relatated. We found a profile we liked and moved forward, two long weeks later I was pregnant. We were thrilled and we just knew this would work. At the 6 week mark again I had another miscarriage, we were devasted again, mixed with lots of confusion. I sent our little one out for testing and found that she was perfect so we ran more test on me. They then discovered that I have a blood clotting disorder that only occurs when I am pregnant. This disorder could be sending micro blood clots to the baby. Thankfully it can be treated with blood thinners, and close monitioring. However after this second loss we decieded to take some time off and we will be going to Alaskan cruise in June of 2025. We know and believe things happen for a reason, so we have to believe that there is a reason even if we don't understand. Here we are now, asking for help in starting a family we have a lot of love, we have many adventures planned with our little ones. We have faith that this journey isn't over for us, we know it isn't. That being said let me share some details about our extended family. I come from a rather large family. I am very close with my sister's we talk at least once a day. We get together once a year and do sister photo shoot. Family gathering are almost always at our house, if they aren't at our house then we usually rent a huge cabin in TN. There is a family tradition that the youngest in the family gets to pass out gifts around the Chrismas tree. The youngest also usually helps say grace around the Thanksgiving table. There is another tradition of helping my grandmother plant flowers in her yard. My sisters and I have memories of planting flowers and thats something she continues when we have little ones enter the family. My husband and I plan to start a lot of new ones when we have childern while still sticking to older tradition. Since we are a military family we do move and when we move we make sure to get a house that has plenty of space to hold extended family. We understand the importance of family, but we also have such an incredible support of friends from across the United States. We know that it takes a village, and thats what we have. They might not be down the road, but they all over rooting for us, and they will always be there for any childern we have. We know you are searching for the best so we hope that you give us the privilege of being called mom and dad. Thank you for getting to know us.