Dear Donor,

I hope this letter finds you well and thank you for taking the time to read my letter to you.

I’m writing to introduce myself and to let you know that after much consideration and reflection, I’ve chosen to pursue embryo adoption as a path to build the family I’ve always dreamed of. I am a single heterosexual woman with a deep desire to become a mother. My journey with IVF has had incredible highs and lows with IVF and Surrogacy. I would be happy to discuss this in more detail when we meet. As far as I’m concerned, it doesn’t do any good to dwell on the past, I want to keep moving forward with my process - I have two incredible and proven surrogates that are ready for transfer. My plan is to move forward with both surrogates with a single embryo transfer with each surrogate. Hopefully, trying twice as hard will increase my chances of becoming a mom.

As someone who has always wanted to experience the joy and love of raising a child, I am committed to providing a nurturing, supportive, and loving home. I truly believe that every child deserves a family where they can feel safe, cherished, loved and encouraged to reach their fullest potential.

I understand that the road to motherhood can come with challenges, and my decision to pursue embryo adoption reflects my willingness to embrace this unique and special path. I am excited about the possibility of welcoming a child into my life and giving them a warm, stable environment where they can thrive.

I am especially so excited to experience life with my child – going through homework together, playing sports, attending plays/concerts/recitals, traveling the world, and being that mom that cheers on my child when they have a performance or a game. I would also like to mention that I have traveled to over 50 countries and look forward to traveling even more when I have a child and show them the world.

I am East Indian and grew up in a very loving and liberal family. My dad grew up in India, my mom grew up in Tanzania and my brother and I were born in the Middle East. I grew up having a good balance of being able to enjoy the sports that I love while really focusing on education as my primary priority. Education is very important in my family and our value system; I want to make sure that my children will get the support and education that they need to pursue their dreams. I have planned my life in a way where I can work and also be a full-time single parent. I am an entrepreneur with my own businesses and my brother is a spine and orthopedic surgeon. My parents also have successful careers in business and on the medical side.

Throughout this process, I’ve been committed to ensuring that the journey is one of love and respect. I welcome the opportunity to build a relationship with you and would be honored to receive your embryos, knowing that this decision could offer both of us the chance to make a meaningful difference in each other’s lives.

Thank you for considering me as a potential parent, and maybe even an extension of each other as a chosen family. I look forward to the opportunity to start this incredible journey of motherhood.

Sincerely,

Intended Mom